Some people are shy, some are chatty, some other extraverted and some are not. In case of our interest to reinforce some of our personal features, due to personal growth, people may try a different way to do so. One way or another, like an athlete or warrior, finally you need to face the battlefield. People are less tend to expose their new version because of its costs. Cost of being judged, make fun of, being rejected or etc.
What if there was a way to damage control. What if we could have a training team before the battlefield?
Well, here is mine. When I was younger, social media was kinda more general and public, like messenger and chat rooms, I remember a time that you have to be online at an exact time to enter a specific room and even in that case you wouldn’t be so sure you get in. I did experience dial-up connection, and with all difficulties to getting online, just imagine how precious that moment you push the talk button throughout your teenage room is, there were so many guys who owned the room and there were fewer girls out there. And it was only because of the reason I gave earlier. It was hard and still is to fit in, to be somebody even nobody and make yourself belong in!
I was/am the 12 years old little town girl who run after my grandma’s garden big scary savage bantam which was almost my height, and the same teenage girl push the talk button and dive into the world wide web ocean. Did I face being judged or make fun of or humiliated? Yes of course I did! But I also get Strong, brave and experienced as well. My biggest achievement was to enter a capping verse online room a couple of weeks later, beat them all and own the room.
That was how online media help me and is helping me, to test out myself, making mistake and learn. Sometimes he takes over me which obviously is my negligence, but as soon as reawaking and come to my senses, I would take control back.
On the road of constructing your life, Taste of amusement and the joy of letting go is sweet and wanted as a creamy cheesy New York Cheesecake in the middle of a sweaty salty working out, but what gives you the power and bring the tingling under your skin is
YOU CHOOSE WHAT TO TAKE IN.